Hamilton opened on Broadway August 6, 2015. Brandon V. Dixon has been on stages acting, singing and now lecturing since 2003. So why didn’t Mr. Dixon take advantage of the stage and audiences to share his concerns about America with Obama and Biden in 2008 or 2012? I guess Mr. Dixon wasn’t […]

via CAST OF HAMILTON’S MESSAGE to the Administration-elect — Arlin Report

Reblogged on kommonsentsjane/blogkommonsents.

Let’s set the stage for this event – this group knew that Pence would be in attendance at this performance and actually made him a part of the production by including Pence in the play.  Now  they need to send him his pay for making him a part of it.

Vice-President Pence was a paying person at this public place and for Dixon to place Pence in an awkward position was not appropriate and certain a lack of manners for Dixon.  It would be like a white person doing the same thing to Obama.

But, I would not have expected anything different from these types of artists.  Although Pence said it did not “bither him a  bot.”

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“If we are to live together in peace, we must come to know each other better.” ~Lyndon Johnson

A while back, I told a friend that I try to follow the old adage “Treat people how you wanted to be treated.” He responded that he tries to treat people how they want to be treated. This really got me thinking.

I’ve always tried to gauge people’s needs by relating to them—by seeing myself in them, and giving them what I would want if I were in their shoes.

It never occurred to me consider how I differ from them, and how their wants may differ, as well.

This friend of mine, he values connection and support, just like everyone else, but he’s not someone who likes to talk about his problems at length. In fact, he prefers to get things off his chest and then move on, instead of dwelling on things that bother him.

A mutual friend of ours enjoys dissecting a problem from every angle. If he treated her how he likes to be treated, he may try to help her let go and move on quickly, as that’s how he does things.

But he doesn’t treat her that way. Instead, he simply listens until she’s done talking, because he understands that she appreciates that.

He understands that what works for him isn’t necessarily what works for everyone; and that there is no right or wrong when it comes to the support we want from other people.

What a beautiful way to be there for someone—to try to ascertain what they value in a friendship, and then provide it, without question or judgment.

I’m not suggesting we enable people when they’re compromising their emotional well being, or facilitate codependent relationships by giving in to unhealthy requests.

I’m suggesting we can make the world a better place by meeting people where they are and instead of assuming that’s where we are.

It’s recognizing when someone wants space, even if you’d prefer to be surrounded by people in a similar situation.

It’s realizing when someone wants vocal appreciation, even if you’d feel uncomfortable with that kind of attention.

It’s moving beyond empathy to understanding, and building stronger relationships.

As usual, Vice-President Elect Pence was his gracious self – accepted the awkwardness of the moment and moved on in reality.  Something Dixon should do in the future.In the end, it has to be a two-way street.

kommonsentsjane